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		<title>How To Get Him Back &#8211; Your Ex That Is</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Nov 2008 01:52:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been telling you a lot about the magic of making up but I&#8217;m telling you the bonus materials are just as good or better. The Clean Slate Method, how you can move past whatever may have happened including infidelity. Mind Magic, psychological methods for getting things back, including the &#8220;magic letter&#8221; and how to train anyone to do exactly what you want. These bonuses are just that extras that enhance the value of the package. But here we are, back to training your man. He&#8217;ll be happier for it and you will too. It&#8217;s like a great, wild stallion. Not much good to anyone until he is saddled and ridden but then he can be so much fun and so affectionate. That&#8217;s it, a quick post for now. Get him back! Get The Magic Of Making Up! Click Here To Order It’s Just $39.00 addthis_url = 'http%3A%2F%2Fwww.backinyourarms.com%2F102%2Fhow-to-get-him-back-your-ex-that-is%2F'; addthis_title = 'How+To+Get+Him+Back+%26%238211%3B+Your+Ex+That+Is'; addthis_pub = ''; Technorati Tags: get him back, how to get your ex back]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been telling you a lot about the <a title="get him back" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">magic of making</a> up but I&#8217;m telling you the bonus materials are just as good or better.</p>
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<li><strong>The Clean Slate Method</strong>, how you can move past whatever may have happened including infidelity.</li>
<li><strong>Mind Magic</strong>, psychological methods for getting things back, including the &#8220;magic letter&#8221; and how to train anyone to do exactly what you want.</li>
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<p>These bonuses are just that extras that enhance the value of the package.  But here we are, back to training your man.  He&#8217;ll be happier for it and you will too.  It&#8217;s like a great, wild stallion.  Not much good to anyone until he is saddled and ridden but then he can be so much fun and so affectionate.<br />
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		<title>Save Your Relationship With These 3 Counterintuitive Techniques</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 18:36:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying to save your relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you&#8217;ll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever. Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the &#8216;counterintuitive path&#8217;. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it. As a warning, the techniques you&#8217;re about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look an feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations. Counterintuitive Technique #1 The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you&#8217;re able to do so. It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trying to save your relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you&#8217;ll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever.  Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the &#8216;counterintuitive path&#8217;. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it.</p>
<p>As a warning, the techniques you&#8217;re about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look an feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.</p>
<p>Counterintuitive Technique #1</p>
<p>The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you&#8217;re able to do so.</p>
<p>It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you&#8217;ve beem nagging them about getting back together.</p>
<p>Counterintuitive Technique #2</p>
<p>The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You&#8217;re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.</p>
<p>By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique.</p>
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<p>Who is Renee Pullman?</p>
<div class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 105px"><img style="float: right" title="Renee Pullman" src="http://www.backinyourarms.com/wp-content/uploads/reneesnap.jpg" alt="Renee Pullman" width="95" height="88" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Renee Pullman</p></div>
<p>I am a freelance writer who likes to hang out at Starbucks and do my writing.  I also counsel everyone about their lives &#8211; it has always been that way.  People I don&#8217;t know are drawn to me and I am able to help them.  I have an attitude (if you haven&#8217;t picked up on it yet) and I also have my <a title="Advice For The Human Race" href="http://reneespirit.wordpress.com/about/" target="_blank">Advice For The Human Race</a> blog.  In my spare, and private time, I train men.  They are always better off for having known me.</p>
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<p>Counterintuitive Technique #3</p>
<p>The next step is to plan an event where you two can reconnect. But there are many critical steps in between you can not leave out! Discover all the counterintuitive and unconventional steps to <a title="Get Your Ex Back" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">get your Ex back</a>.</p>
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		<title>Get Your Ex Back &#8211; More About Treating Him Like A Dog &#8211; He&#8217;ll Love It</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 18:20:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ykaw97</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some of the reaction to my post about &#8216;Man Training&#8217; is amazing. Pro and Con &#8211; many of you get it. The other thing you need to appreciate is as you train your dog, your dog trains you. You begin to pick up on the little things. When the dog goes to the door it&#8217;s because he&#8217;s learning that you don&#8217;t want him to pee on the floor. With your man not noticing those little things might mean a similar huge blow up. So you&#8217;ve got to train him. Let&#8217;s face it the women have all the class in the world a man needs to be led. You&#8217;ll find lots of ways to do it in The Magic Of Making Up. Even if you don&#8217;t want your Ex back you need this book so you can learn to get the new one started right, so you won&#8217;t have to drop him at the pound later. I&#8217;ve looked around to find some support for my view point and found a couple of writers who have preceded me on this topic. Alison Bennett has a nice article on the subject that I&#8217;m posting for you here: Understanding Men &#8211; Treat Your Man [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of the reaction to my post about &#8216;Man Training&#8217; is amazing.  Pro and Con &#8211; many of you get it.</p>
<div class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 348px"><img title="Get Your Ex Back" src="http://www.backinyourarms.com/wp-content/uploads/reneesnap.jpg" alt="Hi, Im Renee" width="338" height="315" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Hi, I&#39;m Renee</p></div>
<p>The other thing you need to appreciate is as you train your dog, your dog trains you.  You begin to pick up on the little things.  When the dog goes to the door it&#8217;s because he&#8217;s learning that you don&#8217;t want him to pee on the floor.  With your man not noticing those little things might mean a similar huge blow up.  So you&#8217;ve got to train him.  Let&#8217;s face it the women have all the class in the world a man needs to be led.  You&#8217;ll find lots of ways to do it in  <a title="how to get your ex back" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic Of Making Up</a>.  Even if you don&#8217;t want your Ex back you need this book so you can learn to get the new one started right, so you won&#8217;t have to drop him at the pound later.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve looked around to find some support for my view point and found a couple of writers who have preceded me on this topic.  Alison Bennett has a nice article on the subject that I&#8217;m posting for you here:</p>
<p><strong><span class="art_title">Understanding Men &#8211; Treat Your Man Like A Dog And Get Undying Devotion</span></strong><br />
<span class="copyright">By <a id="link_45" href="http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Alison_Bennett">Alison Bennett</a></span></p>
<p>Ever had a new puppy? It’s a tough business getting the best out of your dog so that you both enjoy and love each other. Building that bond of trust and trustworthiness needs work! Understanding puppies is much the same as understanding men.</p>
<p>If you let your new dog run free with no thought of discipline or training, there will be poop and puddles all over the house. He will be found humping anything available without a care in the world and he’ll run away without casting a glance over his shoulder. You’ll most probably fine him happily begging for food and attention in the nearest comfortable, inviting abode,</p>
<p>If you train your dog properly, he’ll learn where he can relieve himself and where he cannot. He will know that he can’t run around where and with whom he pleases. He will learn not to bite the hand that feeds him.</p>
<p>If you go about your training in the right way, with firmness but with plenty of rewards for good behaviour, your dog will become obedient, loving, loyal and your best friend.</p>
<p>The bond between owner and dog is one of trust. How can you cultivate this same trust between you and your man? What do you need to do to inspire mutual trust?</p>
<p>Here is a list of does and don’ts:</p>
<p><strong>Don’t Be A Doormat</strong></p>
<p>Don’t be a pushover. Let him know where you stand on issue such as slavery, infidelity, lies and being taken for granted. Make it clear, be firm but don’t go on and on endlessly about it. Just as you would with a dog, let your man know where your boundaries are.</p>
<p><strong>Be Tender And Compassionate And Sometimes Display Tough Love</strong></p>
<p>Be loving but never be scared to be tough when necessary. Never let your emotions interfere with your training. No matter how cute and cuddly he is…..he is still a dog.</p>
<p><strong>Never, Ever, Tell Anyone A Secret Your Man Has Told You.</strong></p>
<p>If your man finds out that you have told a secret, that he has shared with you, he will never fully trust you again. In fact, the relationship may well be doomed because it will not blossom into an open relationship where he will tell you everything. Don’t succumb to this act of betrayal</p>
<p><strong>Never Contradict Or Embarrass Him in Public.</strong></p>
<p>He might be acting like a jerk but he is your jerk and loyalty dictates that you don’t vent your criticism in public. If you belittle him, especially in front of his friends, he will resent and distrust you.</p>
<p><strong>Never Use Things He Tells You Against Him</strong></p>
<p>He will never trust and confide in you if he thinks it will ultimately become ammunition. Don’t do it.</p>
<p><strong>Rein In On Erratic Emotions</strong></p>
<p>Men just don’t understand wild emotional swings. Neither do dogs. Keep a lid on screaming, hysteria, and general outrageous emotional behaviour. Get yourself some Evening Primrose oil or something for those PMT times.</p>
<p><strong>Sexual Trust</strong></p>
<p>Consider indulging some of his sexual requests, unless they are too way out or painful. You will probably enjoy it anyway but sexual trust is a big bond builder. Sexual slave? No. Sexual trust? Yes.</p>
<p>Okay, bear in the mind the above rules, get a collar, a lead and a pocket of guy treats and go out and train yourself a man.</p>
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<p>You&#8217;ll find all the right things to do in <a title="how to get your ex back" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic Of Making Up</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Nov 2008 03:54:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just a quick post. I&#8217;ve been thinking about how the dog training is similar to what you need to be doing to get your Ex back. When the dog runs away don&#8217;t chase him, he will keep running. When he comes back for any reason don&#8217;t punish him. Make coming to you more attractive than running away. You do this by positive reinforcement, your dog you pat on the head. Your man you build up his ego. T.W. has lots of ways to do this in The Magic Of Making Up. The as with calling your dog, the positive association will grow but don&#8217;t be demanding and while in this crucial build up phase don&#8217;t be demanding or call him to you when you know he wants to do something else. You want him to come when you call him so carefully guage his mood and be free and loose enough that you keep smiling through all this. In the end you will have him obediantly trained. There&#8217;s a good dog training site here. Check it out and get the basics of positve reinforcement. Then check out T. W. book about how to get your ex back. Click Here To [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a quick post.  I&#8217;ve been thinking about how the dog training is similar to what you need to be doing to get your Ex back.</p>
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<li>When the dog runs away don&#8217;t chase him, he will keep running.</li>
<li>When he comes back for any reason don&#8217;t punish him.</li>
<li>Make coming to you more attractive than running away.  You do this by positive reinforcement, your dog you pat on the head.  Your man you build up his ego.  T.W. has lots of ways to do this in <a title="The Magic Of Making Up" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">The Magic Of Making Up</a>.</li>
<li>The as with calling your dog, the positive association will grow but don&#8217;t be demanding and while in this crucial build up phase don&#8217;t be demanding or call him to you when you know he wants to do something else.  You want him to come when you call him so carefully guage his mood and be free and loose enough that you keep smiling through all this.  In the end you will have him obediantly trained.</li>
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<p>There&#8217;s a good dog training site <a title="train your dog" href="http://www.dog-obedience-training-review.com/">here</a>.  Check it out and get the basics of positve reinforcement.  Then check out T. W. book about <a title="how to get your ex back" href="http://follett79.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/">how to get your ex back</a>.</p>
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		<title>To Get Your Ex Back &#8211; Treat Him Like A Dog</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 04:31:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What if you treated your Ex like a dog? That statement has a negative connotation but the fact is you probably do treat your dog better than your Ex &#8211; even when he wasn&#8217;t your Ex. Dogs come round wagging their tails and you pet them, give them treats. Hi &#8211; I&#8217;m Renee But your happy Ex, you probably went off on him as often as not. And now that he&#8217;s an Ex, are you chasing him? Ever had your dog get out of the yard? Ever try to chase him down and catch him? The harder you run after him &#8211; the harder he runs away. There’s a big clue for you. Don’t chase him, don’t plead. Just like your dog, be a little patient, he’ll come back licking your hand (or wherever you&#8217;d like him to lick). I used to recommended dog training books (the best is: Don&#8217;t Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training) to my friends to get their Ex back &#8211; to solve their guy problems. Lots in common in training your dog and training your man. Check it out sometime &#8211; most men have very simple minds and simple needs and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">What if you treated your Ex like a dog?  That statement has a negative connotation but the fact is you probably do treat your dog better than your Ex &#8211; even when he wasn&#8217;t your Ex.  Dogs come round wagging their tails and you pet them, give them treats.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">But your happy Ex, you probably went off on him as often as not.  And now that he&#8217;s an Ex, are you chasing him?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Ever had your dog get out of the yard? Ever try to chase him down and catch him? The harder you run after him &#8211; the harder he runs away. There’s a big clue for you. Don’t chase him, don’t plead. Just like your dog, be a little patient, he’ll come back licking your hand (or wherever you&#8217;d like him to lick).</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I used to recommended dog training books (the best is: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553380397?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=reneepullman-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0553380397">Don&#8217;t Shoot the Dog!: The New Art of Teaching and Training</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=reneepullman-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0553380397" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />) to my friends to get their Ex back &#8211; to solve their guy problems. Lots in common in training your dog and training your man. Check it out sometime &#8211; most men have very simple minds and simple needs and a small treat here another there and you can lead him anywhere (actually it works on women too).  In the book, Karen Pryor, calls it positive reinforcement &#8211; does that sound better than dog training?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">An even better resource is T.W. Jackson’s book. It’s got some of the same dog tricks I’ve managed my men with but if you feel bad about this Idea of man training you&#8217;ll be happy to know that T. W. doesn&#8217;t  put them in the same terms that I do.  He also includes even more powerful psychological methods. In fact T. W. has been getting letters. I’ve printed one here:</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Just wanted to thank you for all your help! Your book is amazing and got my man and I back together within a few weeks of reading it. Now to clarify, it had already been some time since we had even spoken to each other, and I was really starting to miss him. I read your instructions very carefully and fallowed them to the tee, and it worked! … I could not have done it without you! We are now blissfully celebrating are Birthdays together, and are even planning a beach getaway just us two.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Thank you sooooo much!!!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Lena</p>
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